Sum It Up With The Sumners
Join Damon and KaToya, the hosts of Sum It Up With The Sumners, as they welcome you to a seat at their dining room table. This podcast will bring you laughs and encouragement as they dig into conversations that every couple has, but sometimes they don't want to talk about out loud. Each episode will run about thirty minutes, which is just enough time for you to finally decide what you're going to watch on Netflix. Be sure to subscribe here and follow them on Instagram and Facebook at: @sumitupsumners. Also, if you enjoy video, check out and subscribe to their youtube channel: Sum It Up With The Sumners. Plus, if you enjoy the podcast and would love to connect more with their online community, be sure to support The Sumners on Patreon for bonus episodes, early access, exclusive content and more!
Episodes
123 episodes
REPLAY: Relationship Myths-Part One
In this replay episode, we breakdown some of the biggest relationship myths and share if there's any truth behind them!!On each episode, we hope that you can have fun with us, as we have those conversations you probably have had too.&nbs...
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33:17
Social Media Woes Pt.2 + TikTok Humility + DM trust
In the second part of our behind-the-scenes Patreon episode, we dive into the amount of trust for DMs, what it takes to be humble on TikTok, how social media really impacts relationships in 2022 and more!! Turn us up, and if you have a mo...
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18:49
Social Media Woes + Grammar Struggles
In this Patreon-first-released episode, we laugh at the struggles of grammar in a relationship, handling social media in marriage and more!! Turn us up, and if you have a moment-- FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM & TIKTOK: @sumitupsumners. Like...
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18:16
13 Ways To Be A Better Husband Now PART 2
Another SOLO episode this week, but it's still a good time! Damon dives into PART TWO of this series with some vital ways to be a better husband like: Flirt more, Love her TV shows too, Make it point to be positive, Get past prior arguments and...
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Episode 112
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28:09
REPLAY: Lustful Hearts and Wandering Minds
In this REPLAY episode, we focus in on protecting your relationship from hearts that can get entangled and eyes that can allow lust to enter your home and so much more!!! Turn us up, and if you have a moment-- FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM @sumi...
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27:05
REPLAY: How we Parent-- Screentime
In this REPLAY episode, we breakdown our parenting style around the infamous world of "screen-time" for our kids. We share several routines that we have created around screen-time + why we've tried various routines + the benefits of technology ...
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33:58
Simple Solutions #17
In this episode, we deliver a CLASSIC edition of SIMPLE SOLUTIONS!! Can your bae wear his bonnet to bed, should you have a system for choosing dinner options, what does an "unladylike" meal look like and so much more!!! Turn us up, and if...
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Episode 111
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28:39
REPLAY: How To Be a Better Listener
REPLAY: In this episode, we share about the importance of understanding the different roles as a listener + why you should never "hijack" a conversation + how quality listening can avoid conflict and more! Listen, enjoy and please share our pod...
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33:54
Is My Relationship Toxic?
In this episode, we talk about the warning signs of a TOXIC relationship? Jealousy, disrespect, patterns of controlling behavior are just a few smoke signals wee talk about and so much more!!! Turn us up, and if you have a moment-- FOLLOW...
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Episode 110
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28:31
13 Ways To Be A Better Husband Now
Another SOLO episode this week, but it's still a good time! Damon dives into some vital ways to be a better husband like keeping your promises, leaving work at work, being the keeper of your love story, talking about your feelings honestly and ...
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Episode 109
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24:21
REPLAY: Sexpectations
In this episode, we share a REPLAY of one of our favorite episodes!!! We talk about the necessary expectations with sex. How to make sure you are on the same page, where our sexual expectations actually come from, when and why should they chang...
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36:22
15 questions to ask your husband about your marriage
In this episode, Damon goes solo and answers FIFTEEN questions on behalf of all husbands on the planet , with no supervision. Tap in for a good time!! Turn us up, and if you have a moment-- FOLLOW US ON INSTAGRAM + TIKTOK @sumitupsumners....
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Episode 108
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25:43
Support is a Verb
In this episode, we catch you up on the abundant amount of support we received, in light of the traumatic situation we recently faced, why support is needed inwardly and outwardly and so much more!!! Turn us up, and if you have a moment--...
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Episode 107
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26:05
Investing in Your Marriage with The Adams from the "Bside of Marriage Podcast"
In this episode, we are joined by the guests of the BSIDE OF MARRIAGE PODCAST-- Jason and Ra'Shunda Adams. We dive into why investing in your marriage is a non-negotiable, how marriage mentors play a role, answer a few SIMPLE SOLUTIONS and so m...
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Episode 106
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38:28
Things You May Not Know About Being a Partner in Marriage
In this episode, we enjoy talking about aspects of being a partner in a relationship, what key attributes make a quality partner, why balancing being a lover and a partner is crucial too and so much more!!! Turn us up, and if you ha...
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Episode 105
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29:24
REPLAY: How we Parent--Fun and Friends
In this episode, we share a REPLAY episode as we dive into how we try to cultivate fun for our family + why we really care about making memories + the intentionality needed to help your kids make friends + so much more!! Tell ya people's about ...
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35:06
Virala Convos: Men and nightshirts + Butt Slap Limits + Cutting off a friend for your partner
In this episode, we reveal a new type of episode: VIRAL CONVERSATIONS. We unpack if men can pull off night-shirts, is it a good idea to have your wedding guests buy their own food at the reception, if your partner is DONE with a person then so ...
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Episode 104
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28:58
Simple Solutions: Relationship Advice #16
In this episode, we dive into another SIMPLE SOLUTIONS episode. Can you really be a friend with your ex + should you lie to your kids about a dead pet + is it healthy to not hang with other couples + how petty can you be towards your bae and so...
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Episode 103
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27:34
REPLAY: Work Life Balance
In this episode, we bring back an OLDIE but a GOODIE! We laugh about the silly notion that "your life ends when you have kids", why you need to have HARD stops with work and how we've used a shared calendar to help us with our communication, to...
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34:33
Viral Conversations: Your bae's order, paying all the bills and respecting what your partner said
In this episode, we reveal a new type of episode: VIRAL CONVERSATIONS. We unpack Lisa Raye's statement that she will only date men who will pay ALL of her bills + do you know your partner's order at their favorite restaurant and so much more!!!...
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Episode 102
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29:26
Simple Solutions: Relationship Advice #15
In this episode, we bring back another edition of SIMPLE SOLUTIONS. These episodes include us sharing advice to couples who went to the world wide web for support. What do to if your wife low-key slaps you + should you still ask your bae to go ...
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Episode 101
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27:48
Getaway with Bae
In this episode, we discuss the importance of finding time to get away with your bae + how these trips can strengthen a relationship + why money can't be an obstacle and so much more!!! Turn us up, and if you have a moment-- FOLLOW US ON ...
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Episode 100
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22:42
Kids in the Summertime
In this episode, we giggle about managing the summertime with kids! Do we do camps or not? How similar is it today then when we were kids + do we do any academic work + why life skills can blossom in the summer and so much more!!! Turn us...
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Episode 99
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